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Your first vibrator: bullet, egg, air pulse, G-spot, rabbit or finger — which type to start with

Short answer: if you have never owned a vibrator, start with external stimulation and keep it small. A bullet (Fun Factory Bijou, Adrien Lastic Rocket) is the lowest-risk first purchase because it does one thing well, costs little and fits in a wash bag. If you already know that broad, touch-free sensation is what you want, an air pulse toy (Fun Factory Belle) is the better first pick. Choose an internal design — G-spot (Fun Factory Joupie) or rabbit (Fun Factory Amorino) — only if you already enjoy internal stimulation and want a toy built for it. A remote egg (Intense Olivia) is the one to buy if the point is sharing control with a partner, and a finger vibrator (Fun Factory Beone) suits people who want their own hand, not a handle, to stay in charge.

Everything in this guide is in stock as it is written and ships with discreet delivery: the sender reads Amorexa and no product name appears on the parcel. We do not quote prices here because they change; the current price is on each product page.

Quick comparison

PickTypeWhere it worksModesPowerWater rating (catalogue)Size (catalogue)
Fun Factory BijouBulletExternal12USB-C rechargeableIPX7 (submersible)Compact, travel size
Adrien Lastic RocketBulletExternal10RechargeableWaterproof finish (bath/shower)Lipstick-sized
Intense OliviaRemote eggInternal (wearable)Pattern cycle via remoteUSB rechargeableNot stated in catalogue9.5 × 3.6 cm, about 8 cm insertable, 58 g
Fun Factory BelleAir pulseExternal, touch-free11USB-C rechargeableIPX7Palm-sized
Fun Factory JoupieG-spotInternal1 (twist to start)2 × AA, not includedIPX718.2 cm long, 2.5 cm diameter
Fun Factory AmorinoRabbitInternal + external arm6 intensities + 6 patternsRechargeableIPX7Flexible shaft, short arm, removable band
Fun Factory BeoneFingerExternal, hand-guided4 speeds + 1 patternUSB-C rechargeableIPX7About 7.4 cm
Dolce Vita OneClassic miniExternal or shallow internal7Rechargeable (USB cable included)Not stated in catalogue12.5 cm long, 2.4 cm diameter

Dimensions are the supplier’s catalogue figures and are best treated as approximate. “IPX7” means the toy is rated to be submerged briefly, which in practice means bath and shower use and a proper rinse under the tap; “waterproof finish” or no rating means wipe-clean and keep the charging port dry.

How to choose in sixty seconds

1. External or internal? If you are not sure, external. Most people’s first positive experience with a vibrator is clitoral, and an external toy cannot be “the wrong size”. 2. Pinpoint or broad? A bullet is pinpoint and buzzy; an air pulse toy is broad and rumbling, with a sucking-like pressure rather than vibration against the skin. People who find direct vibration too much often prefer air pulse; people who want precise control usually prefer a bullet. 3. Alone, with a partner, or both? A remote egg is built for handing control to someone else. A finger vibrator is the opposite: it keeps your own hand in charge and works well during sex because it does not get in the way. 4. Charging or batteries? Rechargeable toys cost a little more and need a cable; battery toys (the Joupie takes two AA cells) are cheaper, always ready and easy to travel with. There is no wrong answer, just a preference. 5. Noise. The quietest designs here are the small rechargeable ones (Dolce Vita One is listed under 60 decibels). Any toy on a bedside table amplifies; on a mattress or in your hand it is much quieter.

Bullets: the sensible first toy

Fun Factory Bijou. A short, grooved bullet in body-safe silicone with twelve vibration modes on a single button. It charges over USB-C and carries an IPX7 rating, so it comes into the shower and goes under the tap afterwards. The grooved surface is not decoration: it gives the fingertips something to hold and adds texture against the skin. This is the one to pick if you want the broadest range of intensities in the smallest package.

Adrien Lastic Rocket. A lipstick-shaped bullet in silicone and ABS with ten modes, rechargeable, and finished to be used in the bath or shower. It looks like a cosmetic in a wash bag, which matters to some people more than any spec. Designed for external use on the clitoris, nipples and anywhere else you like.

Who should skip a bullet: anyone who already knows that pinpoint vibration is too intense for them. Go to air pulse instead.

Air pulse: broad, touch-free sensation

Fun Factory Belle. A rose-shaped air pulse toy in soft silicone with eleven modes. Instead of a vibrating motor pressed against the skin, it rests over the clitoris and sends gentle pressure waves across a small chamber of air, so the sensation is deeper and less “buzzy”. The curved body also sits against the labia for a second, subtler layer of feeling. IPX7 rated and USB-C rechargeable.

Who it suits: people whose previous experience with vibration was “too much, too sharp”, and anyone who wants a toy that works well lying still. Who should skip it: if you like moving a toy around and pressing harder, a bullet or a classic vibrator will feel more direct.

G-spot and classic: for people who already enjoy internal stimulation

Fun Factory Joupie. The simplest internal toy in the shop: a slender, curved silicone G-spot vibrator, 18.2 cm long and 2.5 cm across, with one vibration setting that you start by twisting the base. It runs on two AA batteries (not included) and is IPX7 rated. There are no modes to learn and nothing to charge, which is exactly why it is a good first internal toy.

Dolce Vita One. A compact classic vibrator, 12.5 cm by 2.4 cm, in matte silicone with seven modes on one button and a motor the maker lists at under 60 decibels. Rechargeable with the included USB cable. Short enough for external use and shallow internal use, which makes it the most versatile shape on this page if you are undecided.

Who should skip these: if you have never enjoyed internal stimulation without a toy, an internal toy is unlikely to change that on its own. Start external.

Rabbit: both at once, with more to learn

Fun Factory Amorino. A rabbit with a flexible, gently curved shaft for the G-spot (or prostate) and a short arm for external stimulation. Its unusual feature is a removable silicone band that spreads the vibration across a wider surface when worn, and comes off to be used separately. Six intensities and six patterns, rechargeable, IPX7.

A rabbit is the most “complete” design and also the fussiest: the arm has to land in the right place for your anatomy, which you only find out by trying. Buy one as a first toy only if you know you want both kinds of stimulation at the same time. Otherwise it is a better second purchase.

Finger vibrators: your hand stays in charge

Fun Factory Beone. A small silicone vibrator that sits between two fingers, with two synchronised motors, four speeds and one pattern. About 7.4 cm long, IPX7 rated, USB-C rechargeable. Because your hand is still doing the touching, it feels less like “using a toy” and works naturally during sex with a partner without anyone having to hold a handle.

Remote eggs: built for sharing control

Intense Olivia. A purple vibrating egg, 9.5 cm long and 3.6 cm at its widest, with about 8 cm insertable and a long flexible tail so it is easy to remove. It weighs 58 g. The two-button wireless remote cycles the patterns, and the egg has its own power button so it works without the remote too. It charges over USB. Use a water-based lubricant for insertion.

Who it suits: couples who want one partner to set the pace, and anyone who wants a wearable toy rather than a handheld one. Who should skip it: if you want strong external stimulation, an egg is the wrong shape; it is designed to be worn, not held.

What to buy with it

  • Water-based lubricant. All the toys above are silicone or silicone-and-ABS, and silicone toys should only meet water-based lubricant. One 100 ml bottle (for example Eros Aqua 100 ml) is enough to start; our lubricant guide explains when a bigger bottle makes sense.
  • A toy cleaner. Warm water and mild soap work; a dedicated cleaner such as Pjur Toy Cleaner 100 ml is quicker and dries without residue.
  • A pouch. Most of these toys come without one. Any clean, dust-free cloth bag keeps silicone from picking up lint.

If you are shopping for the two of you rather than for yourself, our couples’ first toys guide covers remote eggs, wearable vibrators and kits side by side.

Care: the thirty-second routine

Rinse or wipe before first use and after every use. Let the toy dry fully before it goes back in the pouch. Charge rechargeable toys before they are completely flat, and do not leave battery toys with cells inside for months. Keep silicone toys apart from each other in storage, and never use silicone lubricant on them.

Frequently asked questions

Can I return a vibrator if it is not right for me?

You have 14 days from delivery for unopened products in their original sealed packaging. Intimate products that have been opened cannot be returned for hygiene reasons, which is why we recommend choosing by type first and reading the product page before you order.

Will the parcel show what I bought?

No. The sender on the parcel reads Amorexa and no product name appears on the outside. Your order e-mails do list the items, so use a private mailbox if that matters to you.

Which is quietest?

The small rechargeable toys. The Dolce Vita One is listed under 60 decibels; bullets like the Bijou and Rocket are also quiet by design. Air pulse toys make a soft pulsing sound rather than a buzz.

Is silicone safe?

The toys on this page are listed by their makers as body-safe silicone (some with ABS plastic in the handle or cap). Silicone is non-porous, cleans easily and does not hold odours. Pair it with water-based lubricant only.

Rechargeable or batteries?

Rechargeable is more convenient at home and cheaper to run over time. Batteries are simpler to travel with and need no cable. If you are unsure, pick the toy, not the power source.

Do I need lubricant with an external toy?

Not strictly, but a little water-based lubricant makes a bullet or air pulse toy glide rather than drag, which most people prefer.

What size should a first internal toy be?

Slim. The Joupie at 2.5 cm across and the Dolce Vita One at 2.4 cm are both on the slender side, which is where most people are comfortable starting.

Products in this guide

Related pages: Shipping · Returns

Sources

  • Catalogue text and supplier specifications on the Amorexa product pages for the eight toys above (modes, dimensions, power, water ratings).
  • Amorexa shipping and returns pages (https://amorexa.com/shipping/, https://amorexa.com/returns/).
  • Care guidance (water-based lubricant only with silicone, dry before storage, store silicone toys apart) reflects the supplier care notes on the product pages and standard practice for silicone toys.

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