Short answer: the best intimate gift is the one that makes the other person feel seen, not the one with the most features. For a partner you are still getting comfortable with, start with a game or a massage set. For a long-term partner, a boxed kit gives you an evening rather than an object. For yourself, choose one good thing and skip the bundle. Every pick below is in stock as this guide is written.
Gifts in this category can feel awkward to give. That is normal, and it is the reason this guide is organised by who you are shopping for instead of by product type. Everything ships with discreet delivery (the sender reads Amorexa, there is no product name on the parcel), and unopened items can be returned within 14 days. Hygiene-sealed products are the usual exception, which is explained on our returns page. We do not quote prices here because they change; each product page shows the current price and delivery cost.
How to choose without getting it wrong
- Gift the evening, not the object. A kit or a game says “I want to spend time with you”. A single toy can say “I have an opinion about your body”. Lead with the first.
- Match the gift to the most hesitant person. If one of you is shy, pick something that works with the lights on and the phone off: cards, dice, massage oils.
- Think about where it will be opened. A gift that is meant for a private moment should be handed over in one. Open it together, not at a family table.
- Pick sealed, simple and clearly described. Kits with a printed contents list remove guesswork on both sides.
At a glance
| Gift | Best for | What you get | Feels like |
|---|---|---|---|
| Shunga 25th Anniversary Desires Calendar | The countdown lover | 25 compartments: 12 travel-sized favourites, 8 regular-sized products, 4 accessories and 1 intimate stimulator | An event that lasts weeks |
| Toyjoy Super Sex Bomb Box | Couples ready to explore | Vibrator, vibrating egg, handcuffs, feather tickler, satin blindfold, single-use vibrating ring, lubricant sachet, massage candle, rose petals | A planned night in |
| Toyjoy Red Romance Gift Set | A first shared box | A nine-piece date-night set | Romantic and low-pressure |
| Je Joue Naughty Gift Set | Design-minded partners | Vibrator, candle, blindfold and card game | Considered and quiet |
| Shunga Naughtier Kit | Fans of sensual cosmetics | A curated set of lubricant and sensual cosmetics in a gift pack | Indulgent |
| ORGIE Pearl Lust Massage Kit | Slow, touch-first evenings | Silky glove massage product (30 ml), pearl necklace, massage guide | Sensual and guided |
| ORGIE mini oil collections (Tantric / Sexy Therapy) | Stocking fillers | Three 30 ml massage oils per set | Small and thoughtful |
| Secret Play Mission 69 | Playful couples | Board, 69 challenges, two dice, two pawns, booklet | Laughter first |
| Kheper Games Let’s F*ck! Scratch Tickets | Spontaneous couples | 8 scratch cards, each hiding a different position suggestion | Cheeky and quick |
| Intense Olivia vibrating egg with remote | Couples who like teasing | Remote-controlled egg | Anticipation |
For a couple
This is the easiest group to shop for, because the gift can be something you open together.
The Shunga 25th Anniversary Desires Calendar is the closest thing in the catalogue to an advent calendar for adults. It holds 25 compartments with a mix of travel-sized favourites, regular-sized products, accessories and one intimate stimulator, and it is designed to be shared or enjoyed alone. It is a limited edition, so if the idea appeals, order early.
If you would rather give a single box with everything in it, the Toyjoy Just For You Super Sex Bomb Box bundles a vibrator, a vibrating egg, handcuffs, a feather tickler, a satin blindfold, a single-use vibrating ring, a lubricant sachet, a massage candle and rose petals. A gentler choice is the Toyjoy Red Romance Gift Set, a nine-piece date-night box. For design-led taste, the Je Joue Naughty Gift Set combines a vibrator, a candle, a blindfold and a card game in one understated package.
Not sure what suits the two of you? Our couples’ first toys guide compares wearable, remote and kit options side by side.
For a game night that does not feel like homework
Secret Play Mission 69 is a proper board game: roll, move, complete the challenge on your square, and reach square 69 with an exact throw. The Kheper Games Intimacy Game is built around conversation first. The Let’s F*ck! Scratch Tickets are the quick, cheeky option: eight cards, each hiding a different suggestion. Games work especially well as a first gift because nobody has to agree to anything big. You are only agreeing to play.
Browse the full range in erotic games.
For someone who loves slow evenings
Massage is a gift almost anyone can accept. The ORGIE Pearl Lust Massage Kit comes with a silky glove product, a pearl necklace and a massage guide, so the person giving does not need to know what they are doing. The Shunga Naughtier Kit packs lubricant and sensual cosmetics into a gift box for couples who like to take their time.
For a stocking filler, the ORGIE Tantric mini collection and the Sexy Therapy mini collection each hold three 30 ml massage oils. See everything in massage oils and candles.
For a partner who likes to be teased
The Intense Olivia vibrating egg is a remote-controlled starter that puts the control in your partner’s hands, and the LELO Tiani Twist is a wearable couples’ vibrator for sensation during sex rather than before it. These are more personal gifts, so give them to someone you have already talked to about what they enjoy.
For yourself
Buying for yourself is not a lesser category. The same rule applies: one thing, chosen well. If you are not sure where to begin, start with comfort and materials rather than power, and read the product page for what is actually in the box.
Frequently asked questions
Will the parcel reveal what is inside?
No. Delivery is discreet: the sender reads Amorexa and there is no product name on the parcel.
Can I return a gift that does not suit?
Unopened items can be returned within 14 days of delivery. Products that have been unsealed for hygiene reasons are the usual exception; the details are on our returns page.
Is it safe to give an intimate gift to a new partner?
Choose something that invites conversation, like a game or a massage set, and avoid anything that implies a verdict on their body or experience. Games and massage kits are the lowest-pressure options in this guide.
How long does delivery take?
It depends on where you live. See our shipping page for current delivery times and costs, and order early in December.
What if something is sold out when I order?
Stock moves quickly in the weeks before Christmas, especially for limited editions such as the Shunga calendar. If a pick is gone, the category links above show the closest alternatives.
